Out of the Blue :: Appreciation

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God is full of surprises, and He uses these different blessings to prove His dependable faithfulness. Out of the blue helps us look expectantly for them as we live our lives exploring them. Today we are focusing on appreciation. What unexpected, surprise appreciation did you receive from someone or extend to someone? How did God use their thank you to make a difference in your day, your year, your life? Or yours in the life of someone else?

How Far Your Thank You Can Go

It seems a lifetime ago, the years when I would snake my way through Miamisburg every Monday through Friday morning towards the little school at the end of 9th street. Each week, I met with every single student there as their music teacher.

When the year came that moved us from that part of the country to another, I knew I’d pack tender memories of sweet students as carefully as fine china.

After announcing my move, the kids’ tears told me they were sad to see me go.

Their barrage of daily hugs told me I’d be missed.

And their stacks of thank you cards told me I was appreciated.

But what surprised me is just how far and wide their appreciation would carry me.

After moving, we called a temporary lodging facility and a postage stamp-sized apartment home for a season. Both were short on cheerful appeal, long on homesickness and familiarity. So when the loneliness crept close, I would pull out those construction papered love notes and soak in their words. They comforted me over and over again.

Long after I left Mark Twain Elementary, those students continued to write and say thank you.

And when many would find me on facebook a decade later {Hey, Mrs. Strong! How are you?}, I was shocked to find their thank yous still warm to the touch.

Those sweet kids taught me – someone they saw 45 minutes each week – a truck load about appreciation:

Appreciation holds your rear view mirror, allowing you to see how the smallest act of kindness exploded love in the life of someone else.

Appreciation is packed down soil that keeps you firmly planted through roaring winds.

Appreciation is light on a dark, closed-in day.

Appreciation is a game changer, a world changer, and it lives hours, days, and years after it’s given.

God says we are to be overflowing with thanks.

No small wonder why.

Next week’s out of the blue: Recently I wrote a post about mistakes and self-imposed bad grades. Just when I convinced myself I’d gone and flunked a particular day, God redeemed it by reminding me the purpose of living a Christ filled life is to walk in the power of His resurrection, not my own condemnation. By the end of the day, He surprised me with an A. So, for next week’s out of the blue, share about a mistake you made – even an ‘oops’ moment – and how your lesson learned or God’s grace from the mistake surprised you. Your story can lean towards poignant or humorous ~ whatever the Lord puts on your heart. There’s no wrong direction. Let’s link arms and encourage one another through failures redeemed! 




When You’re Tempted to Do Thanksgiving Backwards

This original Oklahoma girl received oceans of cultural lessons during the Hawaii years. One of those centered around birthday parties. Unlike here on the mainland, kids in Hawaii don’t open birthday gifts in front of their friends. Gifts are opened privately out of respect for different financial situations and giving abilities and to avoid the comparison trap. So you leave birthday parties full of Kalua pork, cabbage, poi, birthday cake, and a generous helping of the ohana spirit. But you won’t get to take the reaction the child had to the gifts with you.

For me, this tells the story of true thanksgiving, and what it looks like to give out of love and gratitude for someone and not focus on what we get – or don’t get – in return. We give thanks before receiving anything. We give thanks for the opportunity to give.

I tell myself to remember this.

When I write something and it gets few comments, I will be thankful for the opportunity to give.

When I post something on twitter or facebook and hear crickets in return, I will be thankful for the opportunity to give.

When I mail that gift and don’t hear anything back from the recipient, I will be thankful for the opportunity to give.

When I make the new pumpkin pie recipe for Thanksgiving dinner and it bombs, I will be thankful for the opportunity to give.

I’m not gonna lie: This is sometimes easier said than done. I want to turn it all around backwards and insist you do something for me before I am thankful. But I remember this is not God’s way. He tosses up the sun everyday and the stars every night while giving a thousand miracles in between. He does it all whether we give thanks or not.

But when we are thankful – and when we give out of that thankfulness – the windows of our hearts fling open to allow His gifts inside.

“It’s true that giving thanks is actually the best way to receive the gifts. It seems like it should be the opposite, like receiving the gift comes first, and then we’ll feel thankful. But when it comes to invisible things like hope in the midst of heartache or faith in the midst of fear, being thankful can be the very window by which these gifts are able to come in.”  ~Emily Freeman

I pray y’all have a wonderful Thanksgiving, friends. This week and always, may heaven’s favorite blessings be yours.

I’ll be taking the week off to hang with my posse and prepare our own Thanksgiving meal. We are hosting a couple “orphan” families like us who don’t have much extended family in town. What will you be doing this year for Thanksgiving?


If It’s Hard for You to Accept the Gift

When her eyes land on the flowery ocean blue swim cap, she lights up. A friend has offered to buy her first swim cap as a gift, and she emailed two options for Faith to peruse. The first one is solid teal, and she liked it, too. But this colorful, bright-as-a-peacock second choice wins my feisty daughter over.

“How much does each cost?” Faith asks me before taking a bite of breakfast eggs.

I point to the price on the screen.

When she sees her favorite costs more, her lit-up face dims. She sighs and says, “Oh well then, I probably should pick the other
one since it’s less expensive. After all, it’s still very pretty.”

I assure her our friend probably wouldn’t have given her a choice of the two if both weren’t a genuine option.

She pauses, eyebrows furrowed. She takes after her mama who sometimes struggles accepting gifts.

“Well, I do really like this blue flowery one. I’d love to have it, but…only if it’s really okay.”

I lean over her shoulder and look in her gray blue eyes,

“Faith, we need to trust our friend means what she says. Sometimes we  just need to accept the gift and let that be the end.”

It can be hard to say ‘yes’ to a gift, especially when we know what it costs the giver. Even if the giver assures us they are thrilled to bless, we hesitate. We feel shy, prideful, and worry this might put them out. Sometimes we’ll even choose the cheaper option, even if it isn’t the one we like best. Or we’ll just say no and wave it away.

Now if the gift is inappropriate or comes with strings attached, by all means say no. But true gifts are given with open hands and open hearts. They bless.

The beauty of this Thanksgiving and Christmas season is God already gave the gift, Jesus born in a humble stable. His presence in our lives is grace, rest, and salvation. He is the hope of glory. We don’t have to do anything for it because it’s already done. We just need to trust the Giver means what He says, which of course He does.

We just have to accept it.

Is it sometimes hard for you to accept gifts, especially more costly gifts?

Compassion International has a team of bloggers in Peru right now. And y’all, the bloggers are doing an incredible job of telling the people’s stories as well as how Compassion brings them hope in the name of Jesus. All the posts can be found nice and neat over here.  Give yourself a gift and read one or two?


One Truth About Our Social Media World

We are in fall break glory ’round here ~ minus one case of the stomach flu. {Which has been more fall break gory.} I’ve been MIA in all things twitter and facebook. And even though it’s been just a few days, my time offline births fresh air I didn’t know I was missing.

Recently, Emily wrote about being a round person living in an edgy world. And this social media world that never rests? Super edgy. Y’all, I’m about as edgy as a beach ball.

It’s a fight to stay comfortable bringing my round self into an arena that consists of a whole lotta sharp people. They cut through the crowds speaking loud. Sometimes, I feel them poking me left and right like an obnoxious preschooler. As annoying as this is, I often wish I had their sparkly, banter-y answers.

So how does cornerless me learn to deal?

I remember there is a need for my own Hope-filled answers.

Lacking edges doesn’t mean lacking thoughtful opinions or creative ideas or savvy smarts. It’s about needing to have a more quiet place to express those thoughts. A noisy, can’t-hear-the-person-sitting-next-to-me room will not do long term. Oh, I’ll still show up because I am an extrovert who gets a kick out of people. This means I’ll add to the conversation even though I risk feeling like I’m talking to myself. Even though I risk other people not including me in their conversations. More and more, I realize the social media world is a place best suited for giving, not getting. Give with abandon and receive with elation. It’s all a free gift, not something owed.

So I’ll pop in, give some fresh air to others, and be content to leave. Because this girl gets fresh air from quieter corners.

What about you? Do you lean towards round or edgy?

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